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EMPOWER YOURSELF

This is a space where you reconnect with your true self, tap into your full potential and become your most empowered self.

About

If you constantly ask yourself: Is this all I am? Is this all I can?
If you have so much more inside than you show, own, or embrace in yourself,
you are exactly in the right place to finally start Seeing and Recreating yourself!

I believe in the absolute beauty of human potential as a life source. When you open up this source and fill your real needs, fuel your true self, you become unstoppable. No matter how hard life has been, no matter how hard you have been towards yourself, I believe that you can recognize your true self and vocation and do anything you want and decide; you need to know the how and I will help you with it.

My story is that I couldn’t figure out who I was or how to do “it,” and I was paralyzed and stuck in the same inaction or motion loop, a crazy confusing space for over a decade. Many “self-help voices” were literally shouting at me to stop being lazy, discipline myself, and finally take action! However hard or loudly they shouted, I was closing more; I couldn’t be; I couldn’t do it because that was so much deeper than laziness or discipline. And finally, one day, as if thunderstruck, I had the insight and the breakthrough: I figured out how to recognize myself, who I am, and what I want, and I even started doing it.

I will never forget that feeling of absolute peace and bliss, the moment when you are back, the moment of complete catharsis in your mind, the moment of perfect presence, the moment when you smile and hug yourself in your mind, the moment when you understand that you did not give up and embraced yourself, the moment when your inner dialogue is converted to dance, the moment when you understand that we are becoming the stories we tell ourselves, the moment when you start to believe in the magic again~

I want you to experience that moment, share the roadmap to that moment with you and empower you on that beautiful journey of transformation. I promise: it will be one of the most beautiful moments of your life.

EMPOWERING SUNDAYS

I post weekly articles and inspirational content each Sunday to keep you motivated for the coming week because Sunday is a day to pause and reflect, be back to you, and embrace yourself.

If that sounds exciting, subscribe to get your weekly Article on Empowerment, learn to wake yourself up, and step up to your Desired Best Self!

Blog Posts /Articles/

Featured

How to finally focus on your “SELF”, who missed you so much!

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Every heart needs its own love the most.

Cassandra Clare

How to focus on yourself?

If this is a question you just asked, congratulations, you are exactly where you need to be. Welcome back! Thank yourself for bringing you to this all-destructive and all-constructive question because this is the start of your real relationship with your “Inner Self,” who desperately needs your love, focus, and attention.

Before reading the actual and practical essential tips for self-focusing, let’s build your inner state and the right mindset on moving on. Please, first answer these questions sincerely:

Are you afraid of self-focused life?

Is there a resistance voice right there named Selfishness alert? I can feel the voice: most people think they are egocentric if they focus on themselves. Please forget that limiting and untrue idea and replace it with this: “If you want to give your attention and focus to your loved ones, you must give it to yourself first.” Please, remember that you can’t pour from an empty cup. Your cup has to be full; you have to fill your life to give your overflowing energy and love. Avoid draining yourself to losing connection with your “Self.”

If you redirect your focus, are you afraid of being unloved or loved less?

This recent study shows that we have a fundamental human need for social acceptance as a survival mechanism. The rejection activates the brain parts responsible for physical pain. However, even though it may be painful, never let that fear misguide you. You do not have to burn yourself out to be accepted.

You deserve the space and the fulfillment of your own needs.

Blog Posts /Articles/

I don’t know what I want to do with my life: A step-by-step guide to understanding your “Self.”

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If you feel out of life and the world because you just can’t fit in, find your place, or settle down, welcome to my blog because I feel your pain; I have been there and found the way out, so I can share my road to the exit from that soul-sucking feeling, so stay with me. My story is that I couldn’t figure out what to do with my life: I was paralyzed and stuck in the same inaction or motion loop, a crazy confusing space for over a decade.

I remember when I went to the psychologist exhausted after eight years of feeling embarrassed about myself and my place in life, and he greeted me and asked me: Can you tell me who you are and what you do in life?

I started sadly laughing in tears because had I known the answers, I wouldn’t have been there; I was there to figure out who I am and what I want to do with my life finally. I was desperate to find any guidelines on how to live my life, and it took me many years to understand that:

The instruction of life

There is no instruction or manual on living your life, which is the most perfect and imperfect thing about life. So, every single person has to figure this out for himself.

For some people, it is super easy to know who they are and what they want; for example, they decide at the age of six that they want to be a sportsman or a painter, or a video game designer, and that’s it, they take some courses, attend workshops, grow up in their environment, giving life to their goals and turning out to be excellent professionals with early success.

Well done, but this article is not for them; this is for the second group of people, the late bloomers, who can’t figure out what they want for their life, sometimes for half a lifetime or even more. Or you enjoyed doing a thing, had success, and now you wish to change your course and direction and don’t know where to go.

Poems /Free Verse/

Come in, come here; it is me; it is your life.

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Come in, come here; it is me; it is your life.
Do not be afraid of me; It is okay if you make mistakes.
It is okay that you do not know many things, but do not run away, come in, come inside; it's me; it is your life.

I will hug and hold you; there will be windy and super-hot days, cold days,
days without air, and days that you will hold away your breath,
but it is me: it is your life; come walk next to me.

Walk with me, let me hold your hand, let me dance with you, do not go away,
hey, stay with me, let me hold you in me.
Do not skip away; stay inside; it is your house, it is your castle; hey, do not walk away from me.

Walk in, stay inside, do not walk round, around,
plant your tree of life here, do not be afraid, it me, it is your life, come inside, stay in.
Hug your horse, jump on it, touch the hair, touch the skin, move together, walk together, then ride together;

your hair is windy again; where is your windy soul?

Come here; it is your horse; it is your life; stay here,
we are yours, take care of us, we need you.
We miss you, come to your life;

I am the dream that wants you to come and work with me till we reach it,
I am your dance, and I want you to move with me;
I am your soul who wants to create amazing things with you.,

We have been waiting for you for so long ~~ the power of WE ~.

Come here; we call you; we want you, we love, do not be afraid, come inside,
Do not escape anymore; stay here, stay with us,
our windy master, our windy love, stay with us.
Live with us; make us alive.

Come in, come inside; it's me, it is your life.

Poems /Free Verse/

The Moment

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I will never forget that moment of absolute peace and bliss.

The perfect feeling of coming back to yourself.

When you want to shout- I am back, I am back,

Mother,Father, Sister, I am back; 
my friend, my love, hey man, I am back, do you see me?
Can anyone see me?

The moment when you start it all over again

the moment of complete catharsis in your mind,

the moment of perfect presence,

the moment when you smile and hug yourself in your mind,

the moment when you understand that you did not give up and you embraced yourself,

the moment when your inner dialogue is converted to dance,

the moment when u understand that what you share becomes a survival sign for someone else,

the moment when you see and own the horizontal ties, the give-back relationship.

the moment when you understand 
that you are becoming the stories you tell yourself,
the moment when you start to believe in the magic again!

Poems /Free Verse/

LET’S OPEN YOUR WINGS ~

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Let’s tap into your power,
whether it was stolen from you

if you lost it overnight or gradually over time,
without even noticing,

whether it was broken or gone;
no matter what happened to your inner power,
let’s bring it back to you!

You are so much more powerful than you think you are.
And yes, you have wings ~

Show me your hidden wings.
Let’s heal your broken wing.

No matter how deep or wide the canyon is.
If You Open Your Wings, You Will Fly~.